What does a man desire most in another?

Sounds like a silly question but I have the answer. What a man desires most in another is his kindness. This truth is found in Proverbs but if you think about it, it just makes sense. When I interact with another it makes a huge difference to me if I know I will be greeted with kindness and a gentle spirit. That type of response affects how I listen and how I respond. You can never go wrong with a kind word!